My dentist once told me that letting go is like pulling a tooth. When it was pulled out, you’re relieved, but how many times does your tongue run itself over the spot where the tooth once was? Probably a hundred times a day. Just because it wasn't hurting you doesn’t mean you didn't notice it. It leaves a gap and sometimes you see yourself missing it terribly. It’s going to take a while, but it takes time. Should you have kept the tooth? No, because it was causing you so much pain. Therefore, move on and let go.
mom:you never do anything right i do for you all day long and you do nothing for me but stress me out you are so out of control if you think you had no life before you just wait i cant believe you treat your own mother this way get out of my sight
you can’t get mad at a rich person for being rich or a white person for being white or a cis person for being cis but you can be mad at them for being a shitty person and those things don’t automatically make you a shitty person so stop pretending like they do